The world we live in is getting competitive as ever. Everything we do has become a competition, from reaching the class first to winning that fancy dress competition and more. Everyone wants their child to be smart and successful, but many disagree on which factors actually make that possible.
Parenting styles have changed over the years. Some parents believe that participation is more important than winning, while some want their child to be the best. Well, there's need to find a balance between the two, 'coz that's where the competitive spirit lies. One can simply participate in a competition and do nothing, while the other can stress himself/herself to go above and beyond! Hence, there needs to a balance.
Raising a child's competitive spirit can help boost their achievements. A mind-frame set to conquer the competition can boost self-confidence levels and help the child feel good. Here are some pointers for you to follow to boost your child's competitive spirit
1) A Wider Spectrum
Children at preschools often get chances to compete with their friends and classmates over various activities, both inside and beyond the classroom, in individual contests as well as events between houses and teams etc. As parents, you can help develop children's competitive spirit by encouraging them to get involved with a range of activities, beyond what the school can offer. Such activities can help children experience competitiveness in a safe and controlled environment which will help develop and strengthen their personality.
2) Take Chances/h5>
Some children wouldn't want to risk failing or coming last, so they'll opt to avoid the whole competition. If you sense this, you must encourage your child to take chances. Let them know that more than winning, it is important to experience win/fail situations and then learn from the situation.
3) Embrace Failure
Embracing failures is the best way to get children to embrace and revel in the competitive spirit. Let them know it is okay to fail, because after all, failures are the stepping stone to success. By way of examples, share with them stories of people/role-models who failed multiple times before they succeeded. This will ingrain in their minds the true meaning of competition and the real definition of success & failure.
4) Take it Slow
Focus on competitions, activities which they enjoy and the ones they are good at. Do not overwhelm them with a number of competitions and activities. Active participation does the trick, but do not pressurize your children by over-scheduling competitions and experiences. Learn to take it slow.
Encourage your children to embrace competition, to experience first had how winning and losing feels like, and so on etc. It is these experiences that will eventually help children grow up to be holistic, well-rounded individuals.
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